Life changes...whether you like it or not. You change...whether you like it or not. What do you do when you are faced with the changes and need to make decisions?
I DON'T KNOW!
For now, you keep plodding along trying to make things fit (and maybe some day they will). Then when the time is right you make the decision to keep doing that...or do the changing. Or, keep the change and not make a decision and then have Restless Body Syndrome*.
Really?
Maybe. I don't know. I do know that if you have Restless Leg Syndrome you can try putting a bar of soap (a "pure" one if you catch my drift) at the end of your bed and you will feel better. I put mine in with no wrapper and no facecloth under the fitted sheet. No symptoms for two weeks. At all.